17.Apr.14 2 hours ago


better days are coming
better days are coming
better days are coming
better days are coming
better days are coming
better days are coming
better days are coming
better days are coming
better days are coming
better days are coming
better days are coming
better days are coming
better days are coming
better days are coming

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17.Apr.14 2 hours ago
17.Apr.14 2 hours ago
I've followed you for quite a while but I have yet to ask, whats the story behind your url?

Great question…

I’ve always been this kind of weird yet pleasant individual..
I can fit in but for some reason something always makes me stand out.
I’m a loner.
Sometimes a hermit-crab type, that’s the allure part of me…
It’s like you see but then you don’t …
As for disaster, I don’t do well with conformity.
Anything normal doesn’t make too much sense. Lol
Rebellious in more ways than necessary but I’m humble… So I find balance…

This is what Bluntthought wrote about the name…

a disaster.
she showed me
what no one else
was meant to see,
an unwoven mystery..
time was lost
between her eyes
and mine;
breaking away
to caress curves
with visual
as her third eye
traced my lips
into a spiritual eclipse,
i ceased to exist..


17.Apr.14 2 hours ago

Be Where You Are, Not Where You Think You Should Be



I hear it every day from my lovely, clever, go-get-’em clients: Why isn’t this happening faster? I’m doing everything right – I’m sick of waiting. Let’s gooooooo!

Here’s the thing:

The universe has a better plan. One that’s better than the one we have.

Whatever the “source” is for…

17.Apr.14 3 hours ago


your mother is the longest magic show you will ever see

no one knows how her face is target practice for her partner and 

a shield for her children

how she makes a mouthful of blood disappear

erases bruises

hardens teeth

how she wakes up and dresses her children before

dressing her wounds

Magician, Nia Afyah

(via musingsofanawkwardblackgirl)

17.Apr.14 3 hours ago

One: Buy condoms. Buy them and keep them with you at all times, and use them before you are asked to use them. And use them every time. The peace of mind you allow your partner will free her to be vulnerable with you, and that, my son, is exactly what sex is about. Condoms are sexy. In fact, call buying condoms foreplay.
(Footnote: If you are too embarrassed to buy condoms, you are not ready to have sex.)

Two: Kissing is not merely foreplay. Spend entire evenings making out on the couch while fully clothed. Believe me, dry-humping rocks.

Three: Sex is not just about friction. It’s about emotion. Stop trying to find her clitoris and find her heart. Because then she’ll help you find her clitoris.

Four: If you really wanna know how to please a woman, ask her how she masturbates. Then do that. A lot. If she claims she doesn’t masturbate, offer to take her shopping for a vibrator so you can both learn the vocabulary of her body together.

Five: Don’t put anything in her butthole you wouldn’t want in your own.
(Footnote: Try a pinky finger, it’s kinda awesome.)

Six: When you go down on her—and you will go down on her, and if you are my son, you will be amazing at it—tell her how good she tastes. Stop in the middle and kiss her deeply so she knows how good she tastes. Do the same when she goes down on you.

Seven: A simple Google search will yield 1,327 euphemisms for male masturbation, yet only 23 for female masturbation. If guys spent less time jacking off and more time jilling off, this world would be a happier place.

Eight: Everything you need to know about the importance of the clitoris is in the movie Star Wars. You are Luke Skywalker piloting your penis-shaped X-Wing Fighter deep inside her trench. Remember: seventy percent of all Death Stars cannot be blown up through penetration of the trench alone. It must be through focused contact with that little exhaust port at the top of the trench. Otherwise, any explosions you experience will be merely Hollywood special effects.

Nine: Just because you come doesn’t mean she has, so don’t you dare come before her. Focus completely on your partner. Don’t worry about gettin’ yours, you’re a guy. You always get yours. Your job is to make sure she’s gettin’ hers.

Ten: If sex with your partner lasts no longer than this poem, you are not making love. You are masturbating with her body instead of your hand. Shame on you. Go back to step one. You’ve got a lot of learning to do.
Love, Dad.

Big Poppa E., “How To Make Love” (via addictedtofuckingandsex)

(Source: internmarlee, via muditadrivenlife)

17.Apr.14 3 hours ago